as a child growing up, I spent my time playing make believe, creating ninja stars, and playing with my cousin's hand-me-down brite-lite more often than dreaming about my (maybe) wedding. did I dream of a prince? sure, I did. he had a black horse and wasn't the boring, typical white knight-in-shining-armor. In any case, I thought of him and the day much less than I liked spending my time either reading RL Stine's latest or playing Final Fantasy. so did I dream the wedding (or the gown I'd be wearing)? nope...
although, in the last few months, there were more than a few times that I wish I had put a little more thought into this (just a little). after much looking and fitting (I do not like shopping), I came to the conclusion that (1) I like a sweetheart neckline, soft tulle (almost feathery) material, soft white, some beading, corset-fit, simple and fun and wavy and flirty, ball-gown styles. The me-being-picky bit I already knew about. 
btw: most bridal gown reviews are quite unhelpful - they merely say something akin to, "I knew it before I tried it on. It was perfect! This is the one I'm going to walk down the aisle in! I feel like a bride!" I scratch my head and wonder, "Were there bells or some heavenly angelic chorus, too?" (not making fun of any lady that did, of course - good for you if that's the case). (2) Most, if not all, bridal gowns are beautiful (especially as they increase in price). (3) It's common for prices to be ridiculous (and that's BEFORE alterations, which can be even more ridiculous).
all in all, I did find a few I liked (no, not one that called my name unfortunately - or fortunately), but I didn't like them enough for the price... so what did I end up with? an online only purchase, didn't even try it on beforehand (which isn't my usual MO - I don't like risks. hopefully the sizing is correct), it has pockets, it's simple (no tulle and no beading and no princess-ball-gown feel), and it's a whole lot more cost-effective, especially if I plan to wear it only once in my entire life. will I regret not walking down the aisle in my dream wedding gown? no, at least, I don't think I will. I suppose that's the plus of not having grown-up with one in mind. so what did I have in mind growing up? a glass case to put all my collectible toys in, shelves of books (like Belle's), and an entertainment system that rocks, ha ha. I guess I thought less of my wedding and more so about the marriage after the wedding - a marriage like my parents (they're best friends and some days, I come home to them playing the wii or rock band), like Christ and the Church (one that is not of this world), like the one God has planned for me. that's what I'm looking forward to and working towards by God's grace and help.
the feathery one also looks very much like Fleur Delacour's.
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